06. 5 Signs You’re a Sacred Slut

Let’s get one thing straight: the Sacred Slut lives in every one of us — women, men, all genders.

She is the unapologetic embodiment of desire and pleasure.
She loves sex, and is wildly turned on by life.

She doesn’t perform to be wanted, or have sex to be validated.
She chooses it — for herself. 
For her body. Her joy. Her aliveness.

She knows that pleasure is her birthright.

And even if you haven’t met her fully yet, she’s already stirring inside you.
Here’s how you might know...

1. You love sex

You embrace all aspects of sex, both with yourself and others. This doesn’t necessarily mean you have a crazy high sex drive and can think of nothing else. In fact, our Sacred Slut knows her unique sexual rhythm, and owns this.

2. You see sex as sacred

You know it’s so much more than just a physical act. You see sex as spiritual – a space for healing and deeper connection — with yourself, others, and the divine.

3. You’re all about quality over quantity

You crave depth, presence, and delicious slowness, and you are conscious who you share your sexual energy with. You'd rather have one soul-stirring experience than ten empty ones.

4. You celebrate all things sex

You see sex as nourishing and pleasure-giving. You celebrate your own sexuality and the sexuality of all others’, and you don’t shame anyone (or yourself) for their choices or expression.

5. You reject societal shame and expectations

You don’t give a fuck about the taboos and shame society casts over sexuality. You unapologetically own your birthright for pleasure and desires.

If you don’t feel like a Sacred Slut right now — that’s totally normal and is a result of our conditioning. What is one thing you can do today/this week/month to support your Sacred Slut?